Some thoughts on dealing with loss.

I said goodbye to some things over the past few days, and it has been less than fun. And I’ve been thinking about loss in various permutations. The loss of something that can’t come back. Someone asked me this week what I did when my friend died. And I...

Stay classy, person who has my mail.

Right. So there were a number of things I could have conceivably been doing the afternoon before flying to Germany for two months. Like, packing maybe. Or leaving my brother instructions about weird Hoppy House-related things. Or freaking out and falling apart, as per...

Ask Havi #25: Destuckifying a hurt.

Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. Turns...
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