by Havi Brooks | Apr 30, 2009 | biggification, stuff I think about
The thing. You know, the thing. I don’t know what your thing is. But it’s the thing you desperately want to be working on. It’s the thing you are just as desperately avoiding (at least some of the time), and with good reason. But the point is: you...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 27, 2009 | my personal practice, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification
I spent most of my twenties not wanting to be seen. Actually, I probably spent most of my life not wanting to be seen, but what really sticks out is the period right after I got divorced. Not wanting to be seen (take 1) One of the many lovely things I acquired along...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 8, 2008 | working on patterns & habits
The most interesting part so far of developing the non-icky self-promotion for people who hate self-promotion course has been the outpouring (okay, more like an in-pouring) of questions. Questions, what-ifs and semi-anxious expressions of worry or doubt. Of course I...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 12, 2008 | mindful time management, my personal practice
I have been avoiding my homework. And yeah, that’s not something you generally want to hear from a procrastination expert. I have a sort-of excuse. Two sort-of excuses. For one thing, I didn’t realize it was “homework”, and for another, I...
