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Not so much a performance review as a Performance Revue!

by Havi Brooks | Aug 24, 2010 | stuff I think about

One of the quirks of self-employment: There aren’t generally procedures in place to stop and acknowledge how hard you work and how much you have done and how much you care. This came up again yesterday during a chicken with some colleagues. That sense of come...

Blogging therapy: When perfectionism strikes

by Havi Brooks | Nov 4, 2008 | biggification, working on patterns & habits

Number five in our Tuesday series on how to take some of the scary out of blogging (or of anything else) If you want to catch up — though of course you don’t have to — start with these: Part 1. What if people are mean to me? Part 2. What if I throw a...

Your “service”: it is not working

by Havi Brooks | Jul 25, 2008 | stuff I think about

Okay, yesterday I got an email from someone who apparently preferred to remain nameless — since he/she/it suspiciously self-identified only as “support” — announcing that the “service” I apparently get from them will be...

3 steps to dissolving that mental roadblock

by Havi Brooks | Jan 23, 2008 | noozletter, stucknesses & stuckification

Three steps to dissolving that mental roadblock When you know what to do but don’t want to do it, chances are good that something deceptively simple is getting in the way — a word. Words can be healing. And words can be roadblocks. This is because they are...
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