by Havi Brooks | Oct 9, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 27, 2010 | stuff I think about
This is something that accidentally got invented at the Week of Biggification program in Asheville. I said a thing, probably in response to a question. Then Frank drew it as a flow chart. Then we all decided we needed to get it tattooed onto our foreheads. Which...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 2, 2010 | biggification
There is not yet a Lonely Planet guide to The Fluent Self, Inc — Pirate Ship At Large! And yet, everyone who interacts with my business or the blog gets a visceral sense of what things are like around here. Over the past few months I’ve been obsessively...
by Havi Brooks | Jul 19, 2009 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Ever since I posted the first one asking my perfect house to find me, which...