Visions #170: Just add an alligator.

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these Visions of Possibility and Anticipation to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about...

Crossing the Line.

Back in the day, a sailor’s first voyage across the equator was considered a big deal. It was a rite of passage. A ritual of crossing. Everything was different after it happened. Once you had crossed the line, you weren’t just a sailor anymore. You were a...

Everything has a counterpart.

I’ve been on a mission to find one thing in each day and make it slightly less sucky. Not big, meaningful, important things. It’s more like finding some small bit that’s grating or jangling. And then removing it. Replacing, rewriting, adjusting,...

Epiphanies without a filter.

My favorite thing about Shiva Nata is not even the ridiculously clear information it gives about everything in my life. It’s not even the permission to be terrible at something (you have to be terrible at it because being terrible at it is the way you get the...
The Fluent Self