Wish 271: tryst

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. I write a Very Personal Ad each week to practice wanting, and get clarity on my desires. The point isn’t achieving the wish (though cool things emerge from wishing), the point is learning about my relationship...

Very Personal Ads #127: in this together

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...

The Cover Story.

One of my favorite things in the world is finding out what people are using as a cover story for coming to Rally (Rally!). Because when you’re coming to Rally, you don’t really know what it is, right? Even if you’ve done it before. I mean, I’ve...
The Fluent Self