{conditio sine qua non / essential qualifications}

You know how to do entry and exit for our time together.

The form is up to you and doesn’t need to involve my techniques, that’s not important.

I just need you to bring your wisest self to the forefront and do whatever it is that helps you with presence and readiness for this shared interaction.

We meet as equals.

My expectation is that if you are doing this work, you are able to approach as equals, crown on.

You know I’m not your answer; we are playmates and allies, each with our own power and wisdom.

If you have stories (that I am more X than you, that you are not enough Y), you recognize a monster story and apply Self Fluency (skip a stone on it? alignment?) to work through that on your own.

Similarly if for any reason your stuff comes up, you are able to stay with Wise You and trust my good heart and intentions, and work it out on your own using alignment, or if needed, we figure it out easily with compassionate communication. I’ll always work on what is mine, you work on what is yours.

You are able to PROXY and play with metaphors!

I can be a companion in the process of inventing a cover story, but trusting the process is a big deal because so much of what we do is on the level of wax on wax off aka the purpose will not be immediately apparent until the results suddenly are.

You have your own compass, you do your own work.

Of course happy to offer ideas and support, but I also assume you’re already working with qualities that currently speak to you before we start playing together.

I really am here for whatever you need, and can talk to monsters with you or whatever is needed, and my expectation is that you are already someone who is focused on knowing yourself deeply.