Friday chickenBecause it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection.

And you get to join in if you feel like it.

Last week’s intentional non-emergency-breakdown vacation was way less fun than either imagined or predicted.

So we started over. Me, my duck and my gentleman friend.

Off to the woods to visit my favorite uncle and hibernate!

The hard stuff

So. Much. Tired.

Since last week’s not-at-all-relaxing vacation was all about the sleeplessness, this week was all about the schleepy.

And the recovery.

Which was good but it did involve being in a foggy daze for a while.

Stiff.

And achey.

And making creaky sounds. It’s a hard, hard day when a yoga teacher can’t touch her toes but has to be all yoga about it and meet herself where she is.

Stupid mindfulness! Be less annoying!

There was grumbling. And laughter. But also a lot of grumbling.

Being away.

I missed you guys.

Sunday.

There was so much I wanted to do!

Wonderful friends visiting from out of town. Getting the Monster Coloring Book finished. Walking around Portland in the sun!

And I was so worn out that none of it could happen and instead I had to stay in bed all day.

The good stuff

Bed, glorious bed! So many sleeps!

Not only did I get my five-hour marathon-Sunday-afternoon nap-of-bliss, but the entire week was pure, sweet convalescence.

Seclusion. Quiet. Surrounded by trees and covered in mounds of blankets. Listening to the rain beat on the skylights.

Bed at nine. Slept for eleven hours each night and then napped during the day.

Dreaming of everything and nothing.

And no one made me feel bad about it. Not even my monsters.

Yup. We were all on board with the sleeping.

And it was divine.

Napping.

I know I can’t stop talking about this but ohmygod.

What a brilliant invention. Sleeping! In the middle of the day!

It’s the most genius thing EVER.

Making all my Shivanautical epiphanies show up that much faster.

Writing.

My schedule was basically journal-nap-journal.

I wrote out my problems. Wrote out my wonderings. Wrote out my wants. Wrote out my questions.

Writing and sleeping. Best. Vacation. Ever.

A visit to Eugene.

I have the best memories from Eugene.

It was sweet to be back for a few hours.

Svevo!

My uncle Svevo (remember him?) is my favorite person in the world.

He is so wise and so kind and so wonderfully, reassuringly kooky. Being around him is good for my soul.

We walk in the woods and drink tea from cedar boughs.

Doing lots of delicious nothing.

Walking to the garden.

Walking to the creek.

Looking out the windows.

Scritching the cats and playing with the dogs.

Reading. More tea. Back to bed.

Evenings.

Svevo and my gentleman friend and I do yoga on the floor with the cats.

We cook food on the wood stove.

We talk about writing and business and creativity.

Svevo tells us stories about the woods and my grandparents and playing tennis with Gregory Peck in Switzerland.

And I didn’t bring my computer.

It was perfect.

And now it’s time to come home.

Which is kind of sad. But also good.

We get to go to Roller Derby tomorrow and watch Guns N Rollers (the team I sponsor — tagline: “Blood, Sweat and Queers!”) play the Breakneck Betties.

We get to come back to Hoppy House.

And I get to return to my beloved Pirate Ship and run things again.

And see you again!

And … playing live at the meme beach house!

Yes, that’s a Stuism too.

My brother and I have this thing where we come up with ridiculous band names and then say in this really pretentious, knowing tone, “Oh, well, you know, it’s just one guy.”

This week?

The Gustronics.

Though really, it’s actually just one guy.

That’s it for me …

And yes yes yes, of course you can join in my Friday ritual right here in the comments bit if you feel like it.

Yeah? Anything hard and/or good happen in your week?

And, as always, have a glorrrrrrrrrrrrious weekend. And a happy week to come.

The Fluent Self