by Havi Brooks | Jan 14, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
One of my clients has an elephant. We don’t know yet if it’s the elephant in the room. Or if it’s the elephant that you can only describe parts of. Or another elephant altogether. A student of mine has a hole in her memory. Another one thinks she has...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 12, 2010 | stuff I think about
A somewhat goofy mini-collection of stuff I’ve been reading, stuff I’ve been thinking about and oh, some completely random crap. Basically the stuff that never gets mentioned here because I’m not the kind of person who can just make some teeny little...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 12, 2010 | mindful time management, stucknesses & stuckification
Uh. This might take some explaining. Possibly. Let’s see. So at my Kitchen Table we have a Deguiltified Chicken board, which is this zero-guilt space to get acknowledgment and cheering while working on stupid crap we don’t want to do. The chicken joke? Not...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 10, 2010 | biggification
I don’t mean to imply that plans are … bad. Because they’re not. After all, nothing happens without form. Boundaries are useful. Structure can — and should — be supportive. And at the same time, we’re alive. And guess what? Life is...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 9, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
