by Havi Brooks | May 20, 2010 | biggification
The super short version of this post: Being visible and putting stuff out there = terrifying. But also appealing. And all sorts of biggifiers yell at us to hurry up and get big. Gah! Stressful!!! However, there’s a Very Useful Piece of Truth hiding under that...
by Havi Brooks | May 6, 2010 | biggification, stucknesses & stuckification
Asking the name to reveal itself. So I was talking to Hiro about my upcoming program-without-a-name that I’m so looking forward to teaching. And learned all sorts of interesting things. Hiro said it needed a name. But then it wouldn’t tell us what it was....
by Havi Brooks | May 5, 2010 | biggification
We talk a lot here about how scary it can be to be seen. Also about the longing to be seen — seen by certain people. To be acknowledged for what you have done or who you are. The safety of not being found versus the desire to be found. I’ve written about...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 22, 2010 | biggification
We’ve been talking at the Kitchen Table about how to get clients and customers. About how long it takes to biggify your thing. And help I don’t understand what’s wrong how come no one is signing up for my courses and programs dammit. So I wanted to...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 7, 2010 | biggification, stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 10, 2010 | biggification
I don’t mean to imply that plans are … bad. Because they’re not. After all, nothing happens without form. Boundaries are useful. Structure can — and should — be supportive. And at the same time, we’re alive. And guess what? Life is...
