by Havi Brooks | May 29, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | May 24, 2010 | stuff I think about
Notes: when I talk about fun-brewing, that’s what most people call fundraising (but more fun). The barn going up here is the delightful and kooky Playground. I’m not actually having a baby. Metaphor! Selma is my duck. If you’re only going to click on...
by Havi Brooks | May 17, 2010 | stuff I think about
But first: an example. The art of stopping. Stopping — as in, being in a state of intentional not-doing — is not really something that just happens. Most of us have to learn how to do it. And the learning of it takes time. It’s a progression. You...
by Havi Brooks | May 16, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | May 11, 2010 | stuff I think about
One of the lovely people in my Kitchen Table program was having a serious hard. She was dealing with too many iguanas at once and everything was starting to be the crazy. So I said something like awwww sweetie, that sucks. And then I said: Sending love and...
by Havi Brooks | May 10, 2010 | stuff I think about
So. Background. The official definition of an “iguana” (as used here) refers to whatever thing you really don’t feel like doing. Stupid, crappy, annoying things that refuse to stop being things. I’ve written about my iguanaccountability days. And,...
