by Havi Brooks | Jun 22, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
Background: The thing with Shiva Nata: it makes/strengthens neural connections which let you see your patterns, and all the different ways they can be taken apart and put together. When you do it right (by doing it wrong), you can end up in that cop show detective...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 5, 2010 | stuff I think about
Yes. This is the follow-up to Part 1 which was all about the things that were hard, challenging, stressful and annoying about being on email sabbatical. This time it’s about the good parts. And yeah, there are good parts. I mean, there must have been, since...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 17, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
A baby is a tiny, sweet thing. With tiny, sweet toes. Pure potential. But completely there. Babies need: love, protection, caring, acknowledgment, rest, nourishment, space to grow, quiet, comfort, people to smile at it, more love… Babies do not need: noise,...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 15, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 8, 2009 | stuff I think about
Despite all my threats — and despite some nostalgia-induced wishful thinking — I have not gone into crazed cleaning-obsessively-for-Passover mode. Not that there hasn’t been a ridiculous amount of cleaning because ohmygod it starts tonight there has....
