by Havi Brooks | May 13, 2010 | ask Havi
Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. Oh...
by Havi Brooks | May 12, 2010 | my personal practice
Note: If this post makes no sense, which it probably won’t, go read this one. That post also makes no sense but it kind of sets the stage for this one. No pun intended. Since it also has a deus ex machina and confetti, it’s fairly awesome. One more thing....
by Havi Brooks | May 11, 2010 | stuff I think about
One of the lovely people in my Kitchen Table program was having a serious hard. She was dealing with too many iguanas at once and everything was starting to be the crazy. So I said something like awwww sweetie, that sucks. And then I said: Sending love and...
by Havi Brooks | May 10, 2010 | stuff I think about
So. Background. The official definition of an “iguana” (as used here) refers to whatever thing you really don’t feel like doing. Stupid, crappy, annoying things that refuse to stop being things. I’ve written about my iguanaccountability days. And,...
by Havi Brooks | May 9, 2010 | my personal practice
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
