Playing.

Not a big secret that this is something I care about. I write kind of a lot about play and playing. See: yesterday and … pretty much everything else. Also, I have a Playground, a dedicated space for extreme goofballery. And tomorrow we begin the fourth quarter at the...

Amnesty.

A few weeks ago I talked about establishing culture, and my sense of what that means. No one has yet written the Lonely Planet guide to The Fluent Self, Inc. — pirate ship at large, but when I think about the qualities that come together to make this space what...

Shivaguanas!

Today I stumbled into an absolutely massive pile of iguanas. If you are not familiar with the iguanas, I’m referring to the Inowanna variety: those things you just don’t feel like doing. Today’s iguanas are all at least tangentially related to Shiva...

Catching the next wave.

My friend Michael has this theory. It’s been at least a decade since he explained it to me so there’s pretty much no way I can do justice to its twisted brilliance/hilarity, but the basic idea is this: Sometimes we fall out of synch with the world. Or with...

The Fox Who Designed Video Games

I have all kinds of things I want to say about this fox. But if this is going to even slightly make sense, I have to explain the Video Game Technique.* * A useful thing my students/clients use to simultaneously practice several of the principles we work with. If...
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