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Not a personal ad.

by Havi Brooks | Aug 27, 2009 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification

But maybe a preview? Some of my clients and students and other Right People out there in the world are feeling … oh, conflicted. They want (or mostly want) to be writing Very Personal Ads* but they aren’t. And can’t. *The Very Personal Ads are a...

Saying no. Feeling awful about saying no.

by Havi Brooks | Nov 13, 2008 | mindful time management, my personal practice, stuff I think about

I took a day off yesterday. It wasn’t the fun kind of day off. (Though yeah, it is possible that some fun was had.) It was the kind of day off that you take when you realize that if you don’t stop working right this second you are going to get sick. I was...

When you need support and aren’t getting it

by Havi Brooks | Nov 3, 2008 | mindful time management, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification

Huge theme in my inbox lately. You want support. You need support. And it’s just not showing up. We touched on this yesterday with the whole “how come my friends don’t comment on my blog” phenomenon. And a number of Procrastination...

I don’t care about time management.

by Havi Brooks | Oct 27, 2008 | mindful time management, stuff I think about

There’s a giant semi-annoying cliche in the world of people who talk about time-management and productivity stuff: we need to make better use of our time. The experts and biggifiers love to tell us about how we all have the same twenty four hours in the day...

Solving the “but I just don’t have time!” problem

by Havi Brooks | Apr 30, 2008 | mindful time management, noozletter, stucknesses & stuckification

But I just don’t have time! There is this weird and yet totally understandable thing that happens to people (and by people I mean: me and everyone I know). It happens when you find yourself in deep procrastination avoidance, in deep freak-out mode, or both....
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