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Destuckification 101

by Havi Brooks | May 7, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification, stuff I think about

While attempting the other day to answer some 17,000 (okay, slight exaggeration) Ask Havi posts at once, I had to stop and hit the brakes. It had become very apparent just how huge the lack of general knowledge and understanding about destuckifying is. Here’s my...

Apparently I don’t believe in free time.

by Havi Brooks | Apr 7, 2009 | mindful time management, my personal practice

So I’ve been doing a ridiculous amount of work lately on my complicated tangle of beliefs, experiences and patterns around Time.* The feeling of “never enough”, the need for more, the lack of trust that this whole issue is going to get easier. *Not...

Success doesn’t mean not having problems. Apparently.

by Havi Brooks | Mar 5, 2009 | biggification, stuff I think about

I was on Twitter the other day and saw a bunch of people repeating something I didn’t remember saying and attributing it to me. “Success doesn’t mean you don’t have problems. It means you’re strong enough to ask for help.” —...

The questionable practice of de-guiltifying

by Havi Brooks | Jan 19, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits

I wrote last week about some of the people who believed in me without me ever giving them reason to and how powerful that was. The post triggered lots of stuff — both interesting realizations and also huge amounts of internal resistance — for clients and a...

8 ways to have a seriously unpleasant conversation

by Havi Brooks | Dec 11, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification

Clearly you’re going to have to finally talk to that person about that thing. You know you are. And really, it could not be more uncomfortable. You didn’t want to have the conversation to begin with — but now you have to and you’re dreading it....
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