by Havi Brooks | Oct 9, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | Jun 14, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
Sovereignty. Oh, it’s a tricky thing to define. Also to feel. I’ve described it here as: “the spiritual quality of not giving a shit.” “the state of not giving a damn what people think because you are the king or queen of your...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 30, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
So. I get cranky when I don’t get a walk in the morning. Yes, that would be today. If Selma and I remember to make the bed (a thing we got from Gretchen), everything about the rest of the day is better. Even though that makes no sense. If someone says...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 30, 2009 | stuff I think about
Note: this may be the stupidest blog post title I’ve ever come up with. Sure, I avoided the cliched (and highly recommended by nine out of ten experts, me being the tenth, obviously) of giving a number: “8 ways to blah blah blippity blah”. But only...