by Havi Brooks | May 14, 2009 | my personal practice
I was at my friend Carolyn’s yesterday afternoon. And I was feeling pretty upset about the whole awful gold-toothed hackers invading my website thing. Upset and vulnerable. Foggy, even. Like my brain had been hacked too. She led me through a cool little process....
by Havi Brooks | May 7, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification, stuff I think about
While attempting the other day to answer some 17,000 (okay, slight exaggeration) Ask Havi posts at once, I had to stop and hit the brakes. It had become very apparent just how huge the lack of general knowledge and understanding about destuckifying is. Here’s my...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 30, 2009 | biggification, stuff I think about
The thing. You know, the thing. I don’t know what your thing is. But it’s the thing you desperately want to be working on. It’s the thing you are just as desperately avoiding (at least some of the time), and with good reason. But the point is: you...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 28, 2009 | stuff I think about
A very, very short guide to interacting with monsters. Well, fairly short. I will, of course, never reach my goal of writing a post so short that Seth Godin could have written it. And anyway, if Seth had written this post it would be completely brilliant and not full...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 27, 2009 | my personal practice, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification
I spent most of my twenties not wanting to be seen. Actually, I probably spent most of my life not wanting to be seen, but what really sticks out is the period right after I got divorced. Not wanting to be seen (take 1) One of the many lovely things I acquired along...