by Havi Brooks | Feb 11, 2010 | my personal practice
Background: the metaphor technique is something I’ve adapted from Suzette Haden Elgin’s teachings. It’s a terrifically great tool for destuckifying. We play with this one at the Kitchen Table and at some of my wacky events. It’s mainly an...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 21, 2010 | mindful time management, stucknesses & stuckification
Explanation please? Iguanability is short for Iguanaccountability, which is what happens when you get deguiltified accountability with your iguanas. Iguanas are the [stupid, crappy, annoying] things you don’t feel like doing. Doing this iguanability thing is a...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 16, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 12, 2010 | mindful time management, stucknesses & stuckification
Uh. This might take some explaining. Possibly. Let’s see. So at my Kitchen Table we have a Deguiltified Chicken board, which is this zero-guilt space to get acknowledgment and cheering while working on stupid crap we don’t want to do. The chicken joke? Not...
