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Item! Why, there’s a bunch of stuff on my mind!

by Havi Brooks | Nov 12, 2008 | stuff I think about

A somewhat goofy mini-collection of stuff I’ve been reading, stuff I’ve been thinking about and oh, some completely random crap. Basically the stuff that never gets mentioned here because I’m not the kind of person who can just make some teeny little...

Talking truth to fear

by Havi Brooks | Sep 11, 2008 | not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits

A few years ago I took a course with some semi-famous biggified chick on getting over the fear of cold calling. To be honest, I could not care less about cold calling. I was there for the fear. Cold calling just isn’t really my style. And at this point in my...

Why the stuff you hate is useful

by Havi Brooks | Sep 3, 2008 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits

And why you still don’t have to do it even if it is. Some people hate incredibly tacky Christmas decorations. Some people hate cherry Coke. Or, you know, things like racism and war. Me? I hate charades. Not “people pretending to be something they...

Because who doesn’t like a good foot scrub?

by Havi Brooks | Sep 2, 2008 | my personal practice

The thing with time and the way it flies the hell by is that I’m finally getting around to posting something now that’s about a month late. But life is cyclical. And stuff comes back around, so it’s actually weirdly relevant again. Let’s scooby...

Curing phone call dread

by Havi Brooks | Jun 25, 2008 | mindful time management, noozletter, working on patterns & habits

Hey, so this is one of my self-work-themed noozletters that people always used to wish they could comment on. Now you can! Enjoy. When you really don’t want to make that call … There’s nothing like a case of phone call dread. Just to be clear,...
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