by Havi Brooks | May 16, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 5, 2009 | stuff I think about
I’m at the airport. Again. And thinking about how much I love my dammit list, dammit. And how each time I add something to it, my life gets better. Well, my stuff comes up and then I work through it and then my life gets better. Perfect example: the fact that I...
by Havi Brooks | Jun 24, 2009 | my personal practice
Have you ever noticed how when you lose something you’ve written, it just happens to be the one piece that is completely brilliant? Because pretty much the only time I’m absolutely positive that what I’ve written is full of sparkly bits of genius is...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 19, 2009 | stuff I think about
Yesterday I talked about how annoying deliciously ironic it is that the thing that sucks most can so often end up morphing into the best thing that ever happened (even though at the time it was awful and we still wouldn’t do it again). And I said I had a list of...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 14, 2009 | mindful time management, my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
Just one thing. That’s been my theme lately. Theme, mantra, guiding principle. I don’t know. Whatever you want to call it. “Just one thing” is different from “one thing at a time” or from “don’t take on too many...