Not actually a test.

I have been thinking a lot about exit strategies. Not that I’m going anywhere. Definitely not at the moment. But when Selma and I are done here …. or when we’re on Skabbatical… What do I really truly want my people to know? What types of things can I...

The Gracious No.

I’ve been working pretty much non-stop on this for a couple years now. I’ve written about how stuckified I can get with saying NO. And composed so many Very Personal Ads asking for help finding that elusive, gracious NO. Because that’s what I want:...

Ack! Thirty Days of Relaxation.

I have issues with relaxation. Well. Let’s just say that I don’t really like it. Resistance to comfort. It’s my thing. Clarification: I do actually love the sensation of being relaxed when I’m there, but I don’t like a lot of things that...
The Fluent Self