by Havi Brooks | Dec 6, 2009 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 3, 2009 | ask Havi
Right. So Fizz — who is @relsqui on Twitter (you know, the neighborhood bar/cafe place where I’m pretty much always hanging out) — said a wonderfully true thing the other day: “Reading @havi’s blog the first time is like reading a message...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 30, 2009 | stuff I think about
Note: this may be the stupidest blog post title I’ve ever come up with. Sure, I avoided the cliched (and highly recommended by nine out of ten experts, me being the tenth, obviously) of giving a number: “8 ways to blah blah blippity blah”. But only...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 23, 2009 | biggification
Rowr. Well, you just can’t talk biggification without getting into the whole red velvet rope thing. Because growing your thing (the thing!) in a mindful way without burning yourself out means … having boundaries. And making them sexy. But first, I need to...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 10, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification
So Selma and I are at Barbara Sher’s retreat in North Carolina. It’s about biggifying your work through writing and speaking, and it’s fabulous because Barbara is even more Barbara in person than you think she’s going to be. Man. That is one...
