by Havi Brooks | Dec 28, 2009 | stuff I think about
So. Selma and I are using the last week of 2009 to get some things in order. There’s the casual “hey, this is me accounting for things”. And the “looking at the books” sort of accounting. And some “cheshbon nefesh” —...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 3, 2009 | ask Havi
Right. So Fizz — who is @relsqui on Twitter (you know, the neighborhood bar/cafe place where I’m pretty much always hanging out) — said a wonderfully true thing the other day: “Reading @havi’s blog the first time is like reading a message...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 30, 2009 | stuff I think about
Note: this may be the stupidest blog post title I’ve ever come up with. Sure, I avoided the cliched (and highly recommended by nine out of ten experts, me being the tenth, obviously) of giving a number: “8 ways to blah blah blippity blah”. But only...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 24, 2009 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
In which a stuckness shows up and doesn’t want to do the thing it thinks I want it to do. I was having an uh oh moment about my New Big Thing. And called Hiro to ramble incoherently about the stuckness. Me: It’s like I don’t want to put it out in the...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 25, 2009 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...