by Havi Brooks | Dec 11, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification
Clearly you’re going to have to finally talk to that person about that thing. You know you are. And really, it could not be more uncomfortable. You didn’t want to have the conversation to begin with — but now you have to and you’re dreading it....
by Havi Brooks | Jul 8, 2008 | working on patterns & habits
Wait, what are you talking about? Okay, I just wrote a whole noozletter about breaking your patterns down into their various components. And about how you can then use that information to figure out which part of your pattern is going to be the right doorway for you....
by Havi Brooks | May 14, 2008 | noozletter, not hating on yourself, stuff I think about, working on patterns & habits
Ow, make my patterns stop hurting! There’s this semi-creepy deja vu thing that starts happening when one of your patterns kicks in. You know when it’s happening when you catch yourself thinking, “Again?!” Or “Oh boy, here we go again...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 28, 2007 | noozletter, not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification
Dealing successfully with uncomfortable, high-stress (holiday) situations There is no stress like the stress of having to be nice to people you don’t actually feel like being nice to. Welcome to the holiday season. Here in America we are bombarded with Christmas...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 10, 2007 | calm techniques, noozletter, working on patterns & habits
Gee, thanks for the paradigm shift Hanging out in the waiting room of my doctor’s office the other day, I meant to catch up on some work. Instead, I got distracted by a handout called “The Top Ten Ways to Calm Down and Get Rid of Stress”. Or...
