Hello, August. Let’s passage in!

So. August. We’re here. Hi. You know what I’m going to do today? This is straight from my journal. Yesterday morning. What I wrote to August. It’s a little vulnerable, a little intimate. But here it is. Oh August. Hello! I have a thing I want to say....

Very Personal Ads #104: for you

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...

What is true? What’s also true?

This is me, talking to myself. Using the question that almost always helps. What’s true? So tired! What’s also true? This is a pattern. Craving rest is legitimate. There are reasons for being tired. It’s okay. Rest is the first duty of the queen....

More pomegranates. More shelter.

Yesterday we thought about containers, which is a word I dislike but a concept I love. So we actually talked about shelter (and about blanket forts and ship voyages). And building a sukkah (conceptual or otherwise) to symbolically hold us while we go through whatever...

Structures and shelter.

There’s this thing in the world of self-help (self-helpishness? self-helpery?) where I kind of live — people are always talking about containers. About creating containers for things to happen in. I love the concept. Love it! I don’t love the word....
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