by Havi Brooks | Feb 11, 2010 | my personal practice
Background: the metaphor technique is something I’ve adapted from Suzette Haden Elgin’s teachings. It’s a terrifically great tool for destuckifying. We play with this one at the Kitchen Table and at some of my wacky events. It’s mainly an...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 23, 2009 | biggification
Rowr. Well, you just can’t talk biggification without getting into the whole red velvet rope thing. Because growing your thing (the thing!) in a mindful way without burning yourself out means … having boundaries. And making them sexy. But first, I need to...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 18, 2009 | stuff I think about
Remember when we named the moons? I just found this cool, related thing! And it’s so perfect. I was catching up on posts from Suzette Haden Elgin (swoon!) and she was talking about rain and naming types of rain. Twenty-seven of them. This was inspired by a...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 19, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
I wrote last week about some of the people who believed in me without me ever giving them reason to and how powerful that was. The post triggered lots of stuff — both interesting realizations and also huge amounts of internal resistance — for clients and a...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 9, 2008 | ask Havi
We’ve got an anonymous Ask Havi today. One that on the surface relates to our Blogging Therapy series but is — on a deeper level — really about relationships and communication too. It’s a good one, and I was kind of torn about how to answer...
