Very Personal Ads #110: on tour! But a really tiny tour.

by Havi Brooks | Aug 13, 2011 | stuff I think about

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...

Very Personal Ads #88: pudding versus tuckered out

by Havi Brooks | Mar 13, 2011 | my personal practice

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...

Very Personal Ads #84: not actually a song you would have heard of.

by Havi Brooks | Feb 14, 2011 | stuff I think about

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...

Very Personal Ads #82: let’s isolate things

by Havi Brooks | Jan 30, 2011 | stuff I think about

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...

Very Personal Ads #79: but not green in a jolly giant way because that would be weird.

by Havi Brooks | Jan 9, 2011 | stuff I think about

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...