by Havi Brooks | Nov 2, 2009 | ask Havi
Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. Here...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 16, 2009 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Friday! To be honest,...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 1, 2009 | stuff I think about
File under: inadvertent benefits to shoe-throwing. Naomi had one hell of a shoe thrown at her the other day. Which sucks. Ow. And while I don’t want to even slightly imply that being the object of shoe-throwing is a good thing (it’s not!), an astoundingly...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 27, 2009 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | May 20, 2009 | stuff I think about
Pre-post disclaimer about my tongue: it is spending some time in my cheek today. So I tried to make a list of one hundred things I want to do before I die. Because I read about it in a book that I absolutely love. I’ve read it three times. And — like with...