Ask Havi #32: Green monsters. Dealing with envy.

Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. Though of course you can keep sending scarves for Selma. She loves them. Yay. First dinner in the sukkah last night! Please note that I did NOT get eaten by moths/bears nor do I have sauce on my dress. Calling...

Side effects.

Interesting phenomenon. There’s this thing that happens while on your way to figuring something out. Or: on your way to getting something you want. It’s all the incredibly useful, unlikely and surprising things you manage to learn, discover, untangle, trip...

Amnesty.

A few weeks ago I talked about establishing culture, and my sense of what that means. No one has yet written the Lonely Planet guide to The Fluent Self, Inc. — pirate ship at large, but when I think about the qualities that come together to make this space what...
The Fluent Self