by Havi Brooks | Sep 21, 2010 | biggification
Interesting phenomenon. There’s this thing that happens while on your way to figuring something out. Or: on your way to getting something you want. It’s all the incredibly useful, unlikely and surprising things you manage to learn, discover, untangle, trip...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 20, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
A few weeks ago I talked about establishing culture, and my sense of what that means. No one has yet written the Lonely Planet guide to The Fluent Self, Inc. — pirate ship at large, but when I think about the qualities that come together to make this space what...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 19, 2010 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 16, 2010 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. This was a ridiculously...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 16, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
Today I stumbled into an absolutely massive pile of iguanas. If you are not familiar with the iguanas, I’m referring to the Inowanna variety: those things you just don’t feel like doing. Today’s iguanas are all at least tangentially related to Shiva...