We don’t need to be big.

We don’t need to think big. We don’t need to do big things. We don’t need to be big. No. Let me say it like this: We don’t need to be big in order to be biggified. And certainly not any bigger than we want to. Some explaining. Some people think...

Nothing is wasted.

This was the hot buttered insight that emerged yesterday (thank you, Shiva Nata). Like most epiphanies, it sounds pretty stupid when you say it out loud. But it’s still a gleaming piece of truth, and now it lives in my body and is a source of comfort. Nothing is...

Ask Havi #32: Green monsters. Dealing with envy.

Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. Though of course you can keep sending scarves for Selma. She loves them. Yay. First dinner in the sukkah last night! Please note that I did NOT get eaten by moths/bears nor do I have sauce on my dress. Calling...