Crumbling.

Hiro wrote this beautiful, captivating piece last week called Tsunamis in the House of Wholeness. And while I was reading, something began tugging at my sleeve of my memory. At first a vague pulling sensation. Resistance. Where? There. She said December. She said the...

Sovereignty 101.

Sovereignty. Oh, it’s a tricky thing to define. Also to feel. I’ve described it here as: “the spiritual quality of not giving a shit.” “the state of not giving a damn what people think because you are the king or queen of your...

Very Personal Ads #50: equilibrium

Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...

Friday Chicken #97: FBOTW FTW

Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Friday is clearly...

Putting iguanas to bed.

Iguanas = the things you don’t feel like doing. Sometimes you have a mess of them. And sometimes a giant pile of iguanas and doom. Calling them iguanas makes it easier. Kiss to Karen for the awesome Inowanna Iguana. Also: wanting to avoid things is normal. The...
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