A mess of iguanas

So. Background. The official definition of an “iguana” (as used here) refers to whatever thing you really don’t feel like doing. Stupid, crappy, annoying things that refuse to stop being things. I’ve written about my iguanaccountability days. And,...

Invisibility hacks. Three of them.

We talk a lot here about how scary it can be to be seen. Also about the longing to be seen — seen by certain people. To be acknowledged for what you have done or who you are. The safety of not being found versus the desire to be found. I’ve written about...
The Fluent Self