by Havi Brooks | May 10, 2010 | stuff I think about
So. Background. The official definition of an “iguana” (as used here) refers to whatever thing you really don’t feel like doing. Stupid, crappy, annoying things that refuse to stop being things. I’ve written about my iguanaccountability days. And,...
by Havi Brooks | May 9, 2010 | my personal practice
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | May 7, 2010 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. It’s been kind of...
by Havi Brooks | May 6, 2010 | biggification, stucknesses & stuckification
Asking the name to reveal itself. So I was talking to Hiro about my upcoming program-without-a-name that I’m so looking forward to teaching. And learned all sorts of interesting things. Hiro said it needed a name. But then it wouldn’t tell us what it was....
by Havi Brooks | May 5, 2010 | biggification
We talk a lot here about how scary it can be to be seen. Also about the longing to be seen — seen by certain people. To be acknowledged for what you have done or who you are. The safety of not being found versus the desire to be found. I’ve written about...