by Havi Brooks | Mar 10, 2010 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
Background: the metaphor technique is something I’ve adapted from Suzette Haden Elgin’s teachings. It’s a terrific tool for destuckifying. We play with this one at the Kitchen Table and some of my wacky events. It’s mainly an excuse for me to...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 10, 2010 | stuff I think about
Just seems like a thanking sort of day. Not a 77 Things That Don’t Completely Suck sort of day. Just a thanking day. Thank you to Mr. Pants for saying everything that’s in my head. But that I don’t have the balls to say. Also for coming up with the...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 8, 2010 | ask Havi, stucknesses & stuckification
Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. So I...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 7, 2010 | biggification, stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 5, 2010 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. Seriously? Friday?...