by Havi Brooks | Feb 10, 2010 | stuff I think about
It is February 16, 2021, and someone just sent me a link to this blog post I wrote on February 10, 2010, nearly exactly eleven years ago, asking me to update a link in it. The way I like my box of in is empty, and in an ideal world I only receive deliciously good...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 8, 2010 | ask Havi
Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. Here...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 7, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 4, 2010 | updates & announcements
Because it’s Friday AGAIN. And because traditions are important. In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. It has been an odd,...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 4, 2010 | my personal practice, stuff I think about
So there’s this thing that tends to happen when your brain is all scrambled, which is that the part of you that is excessively sensible forgets to weigh in. It’s awesome. Because then you get all the stuff you would normally never say. Much of it...