Ask Havi #22: The Anti-Strategy Strategy

Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use....

Tiny little answers.

A lot of people seem to shoot over questions to me in the form of Direct Messages (DMs) on Twitter. This might be because they know I don’t do email. Sneaky! But it could totally also be because they don’t know I don’t do email. Either way,...

Ask Havi #21: No idea why I do this.

Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use....

Ask Havi #19: sobbing like mad

For some reason we’ve been covering meditation-related stuff kind of a lot lately, what with the whole discussion on how to dump some of the meditation-related shoulds as well as my wacky tales of conversations with blocks. So I bet lots of people have this...

FAQ-ing it up, one question at a time.

In which I answer a fairly impressive variety of questions about At The Kitchen Table With Havi & Selma while simultaneously modeling the art of “meeting objections without trying to convince anyone of anything” while trying to practice brevity,...
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