by Havi Brooks | Apr 21, 2010 | mindful time management, stucknesses & stuckification
Okay. Iguanability is short for Iguanaccountability, which is the best kind of accountability there is. Because it’s deguiltified. And because of the iguanas. Iguanas = the [stupid, crappy, annoying] things you don’t feel like doing. Calling them iguanas...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 5, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
Why yes, I have been talking about monsters kind of a lot. But only because I obsess over them. And today I wanted to clear some stuff up. Because a number of people (not you guys) seem to be under the impression that I’m into slaying monsters (I’m not)....
by Havi Brooks | Mar 30, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
So. I get cranky when I don’t get a walk in the morning. Yes, that would be today. If Selma and I remember to make the bed (a thing we got from Gretchen), everything about the rest of the day is better. Even though that makes no sense. If someone says...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 10, 2010 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
Background: the metaphor technique is something I’ve adapted from Suzette Haden Elgin’s teachings. It’s a terrific tool for destuckifying. We play with this one at the Kitchen Table and some of my wacky events. It’s mainly an excuse for me to...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 8, 2010 | ask Havi, stucknesses & stuckification
Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. So I...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 1, 2010 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
So I spend a lot of time with my monsters. Sometimes I have negotiators or moderators. Sometimes my monsters get cookies. Sometimes they don’t (not all monsters like cookies). And it seemed appropriate to give some more information about the what, why and how of...
