Chicken 326: it was only a test

A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Going back to the qualities. When my mother went into hospice, and I was having trouble thinking or making decisions, I...

Chicken 324: enough love for everyone

A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Sharing what was going on for me. Even when I didn’t want to. Being open, honest and vulnerable. Being open, honest...

Chicken 323: I prefer X.

A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Stating my preferences. Quietly and clearly. I prefer X. Like that. So much easier than I think it will be. I can get so...

Chicken 322: and

A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Having a partner in crime. One of my favorite parts of the last two weeks of Rally (Rally!) was getting to be Yvette West,...

Chicken 321: overglowing

A look at the good and the hard in my week, a ritual of reflecting. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Proxies and cover identities! At Rally (Rally!), we make up cover stories and use proxy missions. So this week I was...

Chicken 320: Wild and Free

Where I cover the good and the hard in my week, visiting the non-preachy side of ritual and self-reflection. It is Friday and we are here. {a breath for Friday.} What worked this week? Asking for what I wanted. In all ways. Especially in the form of pauses,...
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