Setting it up.

Over the past few months I’ve been spending a huge portion of my time trying to set things up for Slightly Future Me so her day goes well and she feels cared for by me. It’s a pretty interesting practice. Last week I was on my vacation and things were...

There’s No Way This Can End Well.

I have a sadness story. It’s a story that lives inside of my consciousness, and it’s all about how everything ends in tears and regret. This story is so familiar that sometimes I think it is me. When I pull away from it so we can see each other, I...

Steal a peek at the Book of You.

Background! The Book of You is the ongoing project that emerges from collecting notes about how we function and what our patterns are and what we need to feel safe and supported. Notes, observations, insights, moments of bing!, plus all the stuff you know about...

Taking notes

We’re rallying at the Rally (Rally!), projectizing our projects. And one of the things we’re doing while we work and play is this: We’re noticing how we are what the patterns are. We’re taking notes. We’re asking WHY LIKE THIS? Yes,...
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