by Havi Brooks | Apr 13, 2014 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. I write a Very Personal Ad each week to practice wanting, and get clarity about my desires. The point isn’t getting my wish (though cool things have emerged from wishing), the point is learning about my...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 16, 2013 | stuff I think about
I am thinking of a word and it starts with a B. Every time I say this, my mind immediately goes to BELIEVE, and from there to Don’t Stop Believin’, and then I’m humming in my head all day…. Just a small town girl / Livin’ in a...
by Havi Brooks | May 10, 2012 | my personal practice
It’s definitely, definitely May, and I am ready to say hello to May in its May-ness. Hi, there. Hi, there. And I decided I want to use that set of four questions from the book about Crucial Conversations that I’ve been working with. So. Let’s try...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 3, 2010 | stuff I think about
A somewhat goofy mini-collection of stuff I’ve been reading, stuff I’ve been thinking about and oh, some completely random crap. Basically the stuff that never gets mentioned here because I’m not the kind of person who can just make some teeny little...
by Havi Brooks | Mar 1, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...