by Havi Brooks | Nov 15, 2009 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 25, 2009 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 22, 2009 | ask Havi
Note: it is almost impossible to get on the Ask Havi list. This person got in by a. being one of my clients or students, b. flattering the hell out of my duck, and c. making life easy on me by being clear about what the question was and what details I could use. So....
by Havi Brooks | May 28, 2009 | book reviews, stucknesses & stuckification
So I was going to write something to answer all the people who wonder out loud (well, in email form, mostly) why it is that I require all clients and Kitchen Table-ers to read Nonviolent Communication. And to sleep with it under their pillows own their own copy. But I...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 28, 2009 | stuff I think about
A very, very short guide to interacting with monsters. Well, fairly short. I will, of course, never reach my goal of writing a post so short that Seth Godin could have written it. And anyway, if Seth had written this post it would be completely brilliant and not full...