by Havi Brooks | Feb 20, 2010 | stuff I think about
Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 25, 2009 | stuff I think about
You might already know that I’m not really a fan of forced gratitude or mandatory counting of blessings. Which is why I have my list of 77 things that don’t completely suck for my Thanksgiving-inspired not-having-to-be-grateful gratitude practice. And yet...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 26, 2009 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification, stuff I think about
I had kind of a disturbing realization this past week — and it really shook me up. Be patient with me though. It might seem kind of superficial at first glance, but it’s not: I am not an outsider. And neither are you. Whoah. Crazy. This makes no sense....
by Havi Brooks | Dec 2, 2008 | biggification
We’re at number nine in our weekly series that focuses on ways to make blogging (and other things) seem a little less intimidating. (If you don’t blog and don’t plan to, you can use this “working-on-your-stucknesses” approach for whatever...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 28, 2008 | biggification
Number four in our series on how to take some of the scary out of blogging. If you want to catch up, here you go: Part 1. What if people are mean to me? Part 2. What if I throw a party and no one shows up? Part 3. Why even bother when there are already other people...