by Havi Brooks | Feb 5, 2009 | biggification, stuff I think about
So I know I left us all hanging on Monday with a cliffhanger … and that a bunch of you at least six of you can’t wait to find out what happens next with the bizarre and awkward conversation between my fear, my stuck and myself. And yet I must dangle that...
by Havi Brooks | Jan 25, 2009 | my personal practice
I have a wall inside of me made entirely of shame. Right now, as I write this, my sense is that this fact could not be more obvious, but yesterday when I first encountered it, my wall was a shocking discovery. Here’s how I ran into the wall. I was in meditation....
by Havi Brooks | Dec 11, 2008 | stucknesses & stuckification
Clearly you’re going to have to finally talk to that person about that thing. You know you are. And really, it could not be more uncomfortable. You didn’t want to have the conversation to begin with — but now you have to and you’re dreading it....
by Havi Brooks | Nov 10, 2008 | calm techniques, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
Let’s pretend that you have to have an awkward, uncomfortable conversation or confrontation or something else that begins with “con” coming up. And I’ll just go ahead and assume that you’re totally not looking forward to it. Anyway, even...