Follow the rabbit holes.

Follow the rabbit holes. As many as you like. They are like the fractal flowers: everything is connected underground. Following something that appears to be a distraction is not a waste of time, if — and it’s a big all-caps IF — you can do it...

I went on a secret play date.

Yesterday I took part in Maryann’s Secret Play Date. It’s a thing she does on her blog every Toozday and it is my favorite. Part of Maryann’s genius is that she believes things like marketing and business planning and making stuff happen (all this...

Safe rooms.

The other day, Kris asked how I’d managed to not go into my victim stuff while getting pulled out of the line again at the airport. It’s complicated. And it’s worth a few posts, but in order to talk about it, I need to explain about safe rooms. A...

Dolls.

I had a session with Hiro yesterday, which was brilliant and kooky and amazing, as always. And she said something kind of like this: “For someone as successful as you are …. well, it’s fascinating that there’s this part of you who believes...
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