Very Personal Ads #142: Lovingly.

Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...

Sweetness for coming-in me.

Today’s post is a woem I wrote a week or so ago. A woem is a poem of woe! And grumbles. This is something we invented at McGrumblebug’s Whine Bar (a forum board disguised as a pub) in my Kitchen Table program. See: My weekend got eaten by bears! And, as it...

This is where I live.

This is where I live. This is my body. It houses me. And not just me-now but all of the versions and aspects of me. And the infinite internal worlds that I am a part of. My body is the home of my creativity, my strength, my desire, my boundaries, my entire experience...

Hello, October.

Last month we didn’t say hello to September until the 8th. This time we’re closer to the entrance — I haven’t landed yet on the timing that feels right but will keep playing/experimenting. Ideally I think I’d want a two-part ritual. Maybe...

Object of Desire: Denver. You can help!

My giant Gwish (goal/wish) right now is to go to Denver for roller derby Championships in November and teach there. I’m going to need your help, but first I have to figure out what I want so that I can ask for it. And to do that, I’m using the OOD (Object...
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