by Havi Brooks | Sep 19, 2010 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Even when the asking thing feels weird and conflicted. Ever since I posted the...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 26, 2010 | my personal practice
Among the many weird, marvelous and extraordinary things that happened at the Rally (Rally!), this one was possibly the most surprising. After some badass spiral practice, I chose six questions and we let those questions be like stones skipping through water. We...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 28, 2010 | stuff I think about
This isn’t really a post. But I wanted to share some non-post postiness with you. And excitement and glee! Because: First thing. The monster coloring book (and manual) is here! Sent out last night to the lucky people who pre-ordered. I just talked to the First...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 10, 2009 | stucknesses & stuckification
So. I have stuff to say. We’ve talked a lot here about the basics of destuckification work. And about some of the situations that come up where our stuff gets in the way of destuckifying. Like when people throw shoes at us, something which definitely happens....
by Havi Brooks | Jun 22, 2009 | my personal practice
Last week Liz McGowen wrote a terrific post called Tina and the Troll. It was inspired by some of my wacky conversations with monsters. And it’s fascinating, because she borrowed my concept of using a negotiator to mediate the hard parts and took it somewhere...