Friday Chicken #167: yeah I said it.

In which I cover the good stuff and the hard stuff in my week, trying for the non-preachy, non-annoying side of ritual and self-reflection. And you get to join in if you feel like it. How is it possibly Friday? I thought we decided things were going to slow down a...

My year without email. Part 2.

Yes. This is the follow-up to Part 1 which was all about the things that were hard, challenging, stressful and annoying about being on email sabbatical. This time it’s about the good parts. And yeah, there are good parts. I mean, there must have been, since...

Ooh. More ways to use the Dammit List.

Note: this may be the stupidest blog post title I’ve ever come up with. Sure, I avoided the cliched (and highly recommended by nine out of ten experts, me being the tenth, obviously) of giving a number: “8 ways to blah blah blippity blah”. But only...

Red velvet ropes in all the right places.

Rowr. Well, you just can’t talk biggification without getting into the whole red velvet rope thing. Because growing your thing (the thing!) in a mindful way without burning yourself out means … having boundaries. And making them sexy. But first, I need to...
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