by Havi Brooks | Apr 9, 2012 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | Oct 20, 2011 | my personal practice
I have been having lots of long talks with Cairene about exhaustion. And the consequences of exhaustion. Like how all the stupidest and most regrettable things I have ever done (see: sneaking into self-forgiveness) all end up being related to how ridiculously little...
by Havi Brooks | Aug 24, 2011 | stuff I think about
So I’ve basically been in bed for three days now. Except for teaching the Shiva Nata class at the Playground last night, which was crazy and beautiful and impossible to describe. But mostly bed. Recovery mode from the weekend that may or may not have been eaten...
by Havi Brooks | Feb 5, 2009 | biggification, stuff I think about
So I know I left us all hanging on Monday with a cliffhanger … and that a bunch of you at least six of you can’t wait to find out what happens next with the bizarre and awkward conversation between my fear, my stuck and myself. And yet I must dangle that...
by Havi Brooks | Sep 11, 2008 | not hating on yourself, stucknesses & stuckification, working on patterns & habits
A few years ago I took a course with some semi-famous biggified chick on getting over the fear of cold calling. To be honest, I could not care less about cold calling. I was there for the fear. Cold calling just isn’t really my style. And at this point in my...