Gender, elephants, biggification.

File under: inadvertent benefits to shoe-throwing. Naomi had one hell of a shoe thrown at her the other day. Which sucks. Ow. And while I don’t want to even slightly imply that being the object of shoe-throwing is a good thing (it’s not!), an astoundingly...

Very Personal Ads #5: Represent!

Personal ads! They’re … personal! Very. So my itty bitty personal ads made me realize that it’s time to make a regular practice of trying to feel okay asking for stuff. Ever since I posted the first one asking my perfect house to find me, which...

Ask Havi #12: the “extra spamtastic” edition

We’ve got an anonymous Ask Havi today. One that on the surface relates to our Blogging Therapy series but is — on a deeper level — really about relationships and communication too. It’s a good one, and I was kind of torn about how to answer...
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