by Havi Brooks | Dec 4, 2011 | my personal practice
Personal ads. They’re … personal! Very. Each week I write these VPAs to practice asking for what I want. And to get clarity on what that really is, even when asking feels conflicted. I always get useful information about my relationship with various...
by Havi Brooks | Apr 5, 2010 | stucknesses & stuckification
Why yes, I have been talking about monsters kind of a lot. But only because I obsess over them. And today I wanted to clear some stuff up. Because a number of people (not you guys) seem to be under the impression that I’m into slaying monsters (I’m not)....
by Havi Brooks | Mar 1, 2010 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
So I spend a lot of time with my monsters. Sometimes I have negotiators or moderators. Sometimes my monsters get cookies. Sometimes they don’t (not all monsters like cookies). And it seemed appropriate to give some more information about the what, why and how of...
by Havi Brooks | Dec 14, 2009 | my personal practice, stucknesses & stuckification
It kind of seemed like the right time to stop avoiding that conversation with the stuckified stuckness of stuckery-stuck. But I still didn’t want to actually talk to the stuck. Oh, and the stuck definitely did not want to talk to me. So I decided to go on a...
by Havi Brooks | Nov 30, 2009 | stuff I think about
Note: this may be the stupidest blog post title I’ve ever come up with. Sure, I avoided the cliched (and highly recommended by nine out of ten experts, me being the tenth, obviously) of giving a number: “8 ways to blah blah blippity blah”. But only...